Come to
think of it…everything that you experience is just a though and an emotion.
Happiness is a thought…misery is a thought…enthusiasm is a thought…depression
is a thought.
Victor
Frankel was a German psychologist who was captured and tortured in Nazi
concentration camps of Hitler’s Germany. He was awarded solitary confinement
and was locked in a dark empty rooms with no outlets. While he was going
through this torture he realized the fundamental of all freedoms….the freedom
to choose your thoughts and emotions…..so he started thinking happy thoughts
and proved that no matter what the situations you can still have happiness and
joy…so you can become happy when you want and all thoughts are choices….you
choose your thoughts and this is a great truth…perhaps the greatest truth.
So to take control of your thoughts you have
to realize:
1. You have the freedom to choose:
Just as
Victor Frankel realized that he had the freedom to be happy even in the midst
of all the torture by thinking happy thoughts…you can also start to exercise
these freedom by taking control of your thoughts and creating a space between
stimuli and response .
2. You create your Destiny
Your
Thoughts and Actions create your character and your character and habits create
your destiny. The trick is to make a habit of thinking positive happy and
motivational thoughts so that you are happy and successful wherever you are.
3. Detachment & Awakening
You need to
detach yourself from the wrong habits that you have formed over the years. You
need to stay aloof and observe without involvement. The more you observe the
more you detach from your thoughts and emotions and you can control and use
them to be happy and successful.
By:
Siddharth Anand
Faculty, INLEAD
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